LOVE at the age of sweet 43
I’m one amongst you, my story was no different than YOU.
I think you might have a better version of story than me. Yeah, I’m so sure because my love life was so complex till the age of forty three that I didn’t even had a failed engagement. Just Imagine! Not a single fleeting moment when someone saw the potential in me to be their wife.
I remember resorted of doing all the things I thought only desperate women would do…
I have even answered to the calls of personal ads in the newspaper, trust me you need lots of courage to do it and then I remember a caller who hung up on me cause I told him my actual height which is 5’2”.
I even think, I was pioneer on the online dating sites and have read almost all the self help books available in the market.
My SINGLE status was so popular that my family & friends always use to set blind dates for me. (except when my mom almost set me up with the grocery store bagger who was about 20 years younger than me! Ehh Noh!)
All these tricks did help me find so called “love”…or I would say at least close enough. Yess! He’s adorable but doesn’t have a job or car, he’s hilarious but smokes a lot of pot, he’s handy but thinks yoga is a cult! The stars were not aligning.
Of course I was not Miss America either…I was also into drinking, hard work, and too much of shopping.
Gloomy Single Days..
No hopes for the future..
Friends family Life..
Single but ready to mingle days..
Then 30 came, still nothing, DEVASTATION hit, (lost several weekends crying on the couch eating Ben & Jerry’s chubby hubby-go figure).
Then I turned 40. Alone | Guys I dated were now wary of me… | I was wary of the guys.
They must be the yucky moldy defects. The crusty, stale leftovers. The good ones were snatched up ages ago.
I felt hopeless, I was ready to give up. Clearly I am not good enough, and began to prepare for a spinster life. I spent a lot of time talking myself into making single okay but deep down my heart truly wanted that special person to shower with love.
My friends were all married… some of their kids were already in high school! WHAT is wrong with me!? I must be too weird? I am scaring them away. I have been single too long no one wants me!
Promise to myself..
After years of tears, dating, dead end relationships, disappointing therapies. I promised myself that no matter what but I’m going to break this painful cycle.
Two straight choices..
It was EITHER reach out to get the change I wanted in my life OR adopt another 27 chihuahuas. (I already had 3 so a pack of 30 sounded pretty fun).
I got committed to get the support I needed, diving into my personal development, taking full responsibility for my experience and engage in proven meditation practices that did helped big time to attract the real love. I discovered that finding love doesn’t have to be hard and painful.
I became responsible for myself and started to BE myself in my own new ways. When I tried my new caliber, whole new guys showed up, and I finally met an adorable little jewish Chiropractor named Larry, (who I affectionately call my tea cup Jew) and we play, grow, laugh and support each other in a magical way.
LIFE in love is so damn Easy!Soon after, I started sharing what I discovered as the Magic Formula. Best part was the people around were also experiencing the same results!
Come fall in Love..
The reason behind I quit my 6 figure corporate job and started with “The LOVE Advantage” was that had actually found the Magic Formula of meeting amazing people and falling in love with them.
With the help of Magic Formula and self learnings, I have helped 200+ Clients to date. I have been in your shoes before and I understand exactly how it feels.